Let go of the monkey mind. Attitude of abundance. Chad isn't stealing your woman, there are plenty of women, decide what you want and tell the universe to provide it.
Books are for neophytes. Same goes for masters. They can push you down the path if you're a simp, but if you're at all competent, you'll find all the knowledge you need in meditation. Meditate at all times. Washing dishes, mowing the lawn, trimming trees, picking up litter, preparing for bed, waking up, reading, writing, typing. Cultivate your mindscape at all times and treat everything as a zen moment, the line between spiritual and mundane is illusory. See things as experiences and events, rather than objects.
When everything is sacred, nothing is, and nothing is sacred. Treat it as such.
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