It's pretty lame to use a piece of wood to open up a can of tuna - what you need is a can opener.
Ennobling your character, controlling your passions, purifying the soul, actualizing the potential and ascending to the divine doesn't sound like your thing. That, however, is the epitome of magic and mysticism.
The natural inclinations of each individual differ. It is absolutely fine to pursue your need for socializing and intimacy - in fact, I'd say it's important for your well being.
Don't use the world as your scapegoat, and don't wallow in self-pity. It is quite clear that you haven't given up on humans - you might be tired of their shit, which is understandble to a certain degree - but besides consulting books and forums, you are projecting human qualities to succubi and fairies.
If you want to meet people who aren't full of shit, make sure you're not shitty yourself, otherwise you'll scare the few good people away - watch Elliot Hulse on youtube if you want to get your shit together.
If you want to fuck beautiful women, study pickup artists such as TylerRSD on youtube.
Personal change and dedication to a discipline is required, irregardless of whether you wish to achieve enlightenment, summon harmful entities, or to be the best version of yourself and improve your socializing skills.
You might as well go with Elliot and Tyler, since their theory and practice is a much more potent tool to achieve your goals of friendship and intimacy than occultism could ever be.
I do not mean to discourage you from your studies, but to encourage you to invest your time properly according to your goals.