I went into the astral and meditated trying to come up with a magickal solution for an anon desiring to change his gender and I have as a result of this deep meditation while in the astral come up the following that I believe will allow him to exploit his own nature to achieve the objectives he desires to realize and crush that which is holding him back (such as doubts that undermine all magickal workings). One technique is feminine the other is masculine, both can and should be used, however depending upon your elemental imbalances one will be stronger than the other.
Total Unreserved Submission Technique (TrUST)
This is the feminine or water method. It operates in a passive way and involves surrendering your will absolutely to another entity, human or astral, it is very powerful and it requires absolute trust.
For this to work you must achieve a singularity of mind in which no resistance is possible. You will submit to the active agent without any reservations at all concerning what might happen if they exploit you or if they command you to do "the impossible". You must be in a state of mind in which disobedience to the will of the other is absolutely impossible and his word is absolute truth. The mantra of "there is only his way, there is only submission, whatever he commands me will be so" should be yours when using this technique.
You must practise total unreserved submission. If they were to ask you to kill yourself, to masturbate, to eat your hand off, to kill someone else, IT WOULD HAPPEN AND IT COULD NOT BE ANY OTHER WAY. Likewise if they asked you to jump 10 feet high, to see the whole world only in shades of blue, told you that you could not feel, see, or even collide with a wall, or that you were to channel an all-knowing intelligence it would happen and it could not be any other way. If they ask you to delete a memory, to feel like you are having an intense orgasm, or to suddenly shit your pants these things too would all happen on his command.
You should be very careful in selecting who you submit to in this way. In the case of the anon I am trying to help, your goal is to switch genders and become a woman, so you obviously need someone or something that is going to give you the correct commands once you're in the state of total unreserved submission. If you have successfully applied the technique, you will not feel that you control your body or mind (at least so far as your own control over your body and mind conflicts with a command given you) at all while you are in the state of submission, it will be entirely under their command. (You can test by having the active agent give commands to move your arms, if they do this and you feel your arm moved completely on its own as if you didn't control it, you're doing it right.) You will only regain control under three conditions:
1. A certain amount of time has passed since you entered the state of total unreserved submission. (this is assuming you built-in a timer for it, otherwise it could go on indefinitely… you probably should put a timer in just in case of some accident like say the person that is to command you suddenly died or lost contact with you.
2. You are dismissed by the active will, thus you are given back control over your body and mind.