hey i just did my first tarot spread and i need some help. i asked the cards for advice on getting a gf and basically it told me i need to stop being a pussy and be more assertive. but i was mystified by the final card. it was 4 of cups. what does this mean? it is my understanding that the final card tells you what will happen. so does this mean that if i attempt to get a gf i will wind up like this guy sitting by a tree staring at cups?
also i chose the lovers as my significator because it was a question about love. but i heard later you're only supposed to use signifactors for people or things, not abstract concepts like love. help