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Smiley? Again?

>>64131

what? It is my first post.

>>64130

The more you fap the more fetishes you get, how has this not dawned on you yet?

>>64138

Yes. I need help for my further research.

>>64136

I know this. But how to stop? How to work for better willpower?

>>64147

most basic method would be to try autosuggestion, before sleep while you lie in bed, repeat to yourself that you do NOT have said fetish until you're asleep

>>64148

But subconcious understand logic like NOT?

>>64148

Aren't you supposed to avoid saying things like "not"? Say things like "I am of healthy mind" instead.

>>64149

It's intent, not wording.

>>64150

as you said it's intent, in IIH it has an example of a phrase with a negative undertone like ''I don't like thing"

>>64148

A better auto suggestion would be to use the quality on the other end of the spectrum of what you wish to transmute. You want to avoid using the negative words in a sentence, because you can confuse the subconsciousness.

An affirmation such as I am the embodiment of the divine masculine force or "I am the embodiment of the balanced divine masculine & feminine" would be fine.

Regarding balance, use both halfs of your body equally, become ambidextrous in all that you do. As you use your right side you stimulate your yang, and as you use your left you stimulate your yin.

Also cultivating balance in mind, thought, and action is also advisable. If you are unsure what I mean look into the nature of masculine and feminine energy, how they work, what they embody and learn to use both modalities. For both energies exist within all people, whether you're male or female just means what you are more predisposed to.

>>64158

Why American and western men in general want to vote that guy called Trump? Because they are feminine. /pol/ is mix of feminine, unbalanced men who can't express their masculine side. They fear. They are being fed with propaganda and masculinizing themselves to the point they are just tools. They let women and men with power to dominate their country and their lifes instead of acting in right way. Germany turned nazi after emasculating effect of WWI.

retarded bullshit thread

>>64161

actually it's not bullshit

>>64162

could be an entity or thoughtform influencing you. Have you considered your gf might be behind this? C'mon just think about it.

>>64130

Here is the best advice for you op.

>>what do you think is the solution?

There are pathways in your brain that exist to enjoy these perversions. The more you indulge in this the stronger the pathways become. If you want it to go away then you have to stop. It won't be completely gone even after years of abstinence.

>>64211

not true, was completely gone after a month for me

>>64203

- Removing porn addiction

- Doing sports

- Release my anger

- Respect other people

- Smile more

- Less stress

- Better food

- Check my blood + free testosterone + thyroid levels

Raw sexuality is a primal force. Like rapidly running water, it carves channels through paths of least resistance. Ultimately however it's shaped by our life experiences and our cultures.

Taking a page from RAW, determine what your first orgasm was like. How similar is it to previous orgasm experiences, has it shaped every sexual experience for you from that point onward?

It's entirely probable that the desire for femdom comes from a time when your mother or mother-figure in life made decisions for you. She was probably stern and paternalistic, but took care of your needs. Your father was probably estranged from your family or was otherwise not present through your life, or otherwise not considered a strong masculine figure. Or I could be completely wrong, make room for doubt. My point is that these figures in your life shape your idea of the masculine/feminine archetypes in your psyche.

Anyway, a compulsion to fap and experience something like femdom reveals some deeper attitudes formed earlier in life as well as your current outlook and experience. You may need to engage what RAW called the "oral biosurvival circuit." Chronic fapping comes from a need for comfort.

Instead of masturbating or even sitting there on the computer, start to make your life more stable, do more physical activities, not just exercise, but relaxation like yoga, massage or a trip to a spa. Take up meditation if you haven't already, and look into slower tantric sex with your gf. if she's not into it, maybe examine where your relationship may be causing your problems.

I don't know a magickal solution however I am a girl with a castration fetish and would be willing to relieve you of your burden as it were.

>>64519

OP here. Why do you think you have castration fetish? What caused this?

>>64130

tl;dr

"I am cuck pls help pls respond"

>>65262

Her father (Uncle?) had sex with her as a child.

>>65264

I am not a cuck. I am even opposite to cuck.

>>65265

>I am even opposite to cuck.

A nigger?

>>64136

I've never developed any tastes beyond vanilla despite fapping daily for the last 11 years

Maybe you all are just naturally degenerate, and weak?

>>65280

well when I was a teen I'd fap for 3-4 times a day

It all comes down to balancing the elements. Perhaps you'd have to banish water and earth to get rid of feminine passivity but someone should definitely confirm my words first

being dominated by a woman isn't emasculation. but getting kicked in the balls is emasculation

>>64160

>They let women and men with power to dominate their country and their lifes instead of acting in right way

The reason they do this is because they understand that even though they can act right, the majority of the population cannot act right.

>>64212

I guess it's more so that it is in hibernation. The pathway, if re ignited, will go back to it's previous state easily, but if kept dormant it will not just suddenly reappear.

>>65262

This anon hit the nail on the head >>65264

Step-father, though.

Here is a technique that worked for me. I had fallen into a revolting fetish from which I could not seem to escape. I did no-fap and meditation and was able to go beyond a month several times but eventually the degenerate urges overcame my will and I'd binge on the disgusting filth once more.

In desperation I finally tried creating a sigil with my intent to transmute any degenerate urge into positive energy and charged it through masturbation. I then charged it a few more times each time I felt urges building pre-empting them by masturbating without porn just using visualization of wholesome natural sex.

So far I've been able to tend to my mental garden and purge not only my acts of seeking out my fetish but the desire to do so in the first place. In the rare occasions I feel the hint of it resurfacing I focus on visualizing the sigil emblazoned in my mind and the urge will fade and I will feel more energy as a result.

God damn it OP. I am effeminate as fuck, my body and voice and everything, I wish I was masculine.

Take a look at pictures of me and read my posts for hours until you get sick of it.

Then you will have no desire to "crush your masculine side" as you will see the horrors of effeminacy.

I find it really disturbing that you would develop a fetish out of destroying what is essentially to wellspring of power / vital energy for a male; your balls.

Anyways some simpe advice; fixate a quality in your mind and work all the time to possess it. Alternatively, use intense fear or other emotion to become possessed by the quality (it possesses you) with the same end result.

>>70509

Hmmmm…

This may have application towards a general principle of magick that could prove effective in many different efforts.